A obstacle i faced in my life was, when I was born i had a dad but as I got older that started to fade over the years. My dad use to act like he was innocent, like he was the good guy i had no idea because i was to young i always use to get mad at my mom for never letting me see him because he was trying to buy my love from my mom and i didnt know that. But what my dad was doing that i didnt know was, drugs, drinking alot, stealing, using fake id, i never thought my dad was a bad person i thought he was the best dad ever but really he wasnt at all. As I got older i found out more stuff and learned my dad wasn't who i thought he was, i cried my self to sleep every night because i never had a dad after he left me when i was like five i was so sad he was always gone in jail or doing drugs with his "friends" they always lead him to bad stuff.                                                                                                                   

 But in 2015 i lost the most important thing to me my grandpa he was always there for me, he was basically my dad and i lost him in a car accident i miss him so much he was my world and every time i think about him it brings tears and memories. But now im more mature know everything like my dad he is in prison hes coming to des moines center so he can be closer to me and be away from his friends which makes me really happy but i hope he sticks to it because it would mean the world to me if he did. But now im handling with my big brother Dominic, hes in treatment for doing something dumb but i hope he takes the right path to because i miss him so much its been so long sense ive seen my brother he was so supportive of me through everything i love him so much.


Then there was the fighting between my mom and step dad, and brother they would always fight cause my brother has always been over protective with all the women in the main family which i agree on. But i just hate how they always fight because i get scared sometimes i wanted to jump in but it wasnt worth it if there just get along the next day. But now there isn't as much fighting cause their drinking less, but i hope everything goes well and i love my family and hope they stay in the right.